If God is your co-pilot you are in the wrong seat. - Unknown

I hope this entry finds you well. This is an excerpt from my book, Chopping Wood & Carrying Water. 

Day 16

“If God is your co-pilot you are in the wrong seat!” – Unknown

Any 12-step program involves an admission of powerlessness over one’s dependencies. On top of that, we realize that we are not the ones in control of our own lives. God is in control. How can this be, you ask? You might be thinking: I am in perfect control of my life! I am in control of what I do, what I say, where I work, how I spend my money, and how I spend my time! While this may be true (because God gave us free will, after all), you are not in control of outcomes. You are not in control of the future. You are only in control of what you think and what you do.

As you read yesterday, expectations can be a very dangerous thing. Expectations can cause unnecessary anxiety, worry, and disappointment. They can lead us to destructive feelings: anger, resentment, depression, anxiety, bitterness, shame, and guilt. If you have begun to realize that God is in charge of worrying about the future, and you are in charge of doing the work that must be done today, you are continuing on a path which leads to serenity and peace. I have often seen bumper stickers that read GOD IS MY CO-PILOT. While this is a novel concept, it is wrong. God is the PILOT, we are the passengers. Part of the problem with most people today is that they continuously try to manipulate the variables in their lives so that things can happen their own way. They think they know better than God, better than the One who created them. You have probably found in your own life that the more you try and force something, the harder it seems to get: be that with a relationship, finances, career, your health, or just about anything else for that matter. The bumper sticker should read I AM GOD’S CO-PILOT. When was the last time you flew on a big commercial airliner? Do you remember boarding the plane, walking past the pilot? He probably greeted you and said “enjoy your flight” or something similar. Once all the passengers have found their seats, and the stewardesses have done their thing, the plane is sealed shut and takes off towards its destination. You are putting your absolute trust and faith into a pilot you have probably only met for a spilt second, if at all. The pilot sits in the cockpit behind a locked door and has the difficult task of getting the passengers to their destination safely. The pilot has all the skills and expertise he needs, PLUS he has the coordinates of where the he is going, AND all the instrumentation he needs to help get him there. He does not need your help! It would be insane (and it would get you into all kinds of trouble these days) for you to get up out of your seat, go knock on the cockpit door, and ask “excuse me, Mr. Pilot, are you sure you know where you are going? Although I have never flown a plane, would you like me to take over the controls for you?” How often do you do this in your own life? When things are not going how you think they should be going, do you take back the controls of your life and start steering your plane again? What usually happens? Well, if you are anything like me, you usually end up in trouble of some sort. The “plane” of life gets off course, and things fall apart. Stop taking over the controls. Stop telling God what he should do and let him do his job. Trust God with everything, and he will get you to your destination. 

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Thank you for reading. 
Paul